No more "Shoulds"

Should is a negative word. "I should have done that", is a regret. Regrets are for avoiding, not dwelling upon. "I should do this or that", weakens your resolve to do it. You either choose to do it or you choose not to do it. Choices are yours to make. Even when you choose to follow somebody else's directive, like an employer's request in return for a salary, you still have a choice. No Shoulds, no regrets, just choices.